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Guard yourself from a spirit of offense

A spirit of offense opens the door for many negative factors in life. When our expectations are not met, we are offended. When we pay for something, we expect proper delivery of the correct goods and/or services. If that is not met, we are offended and demand for what is right. When we feel discriminated or taken for granted, we feel offended Unfulfilled expectations cause offense. If that offense is not controlled or mastered, it develops into resentment, unforgiveness, bitterness, hatred and ultimately vengeance.

There are valid expectations that must be communicated and demanded. A husband and wife relationship have rightful expectations such as faithfulness, commitment, love, and respect. However, there are unrealistic and toxic expectations such overbearing luxury or pornographic lifestyle that destroys a marriage.

How about our perceived “unanswered prayers”? Do we feel offended when we do not get what we asked God for?  Are we offended when we hear others blessed with financial breakthrough when we have a long list of bills to pay? Are we offended when we hear of instantaneous dramatic healings when we have been struggling with a chronic sickness for years? Do we harbor an offense towards God?

If we are not careful, we might fall into a downward spiral of doubt, envy, anger, cynicism, and other spiritually toxic matters. Let us not forget that God is sovereign, and He is Creator. He is the potter, and we are the clay. He can fashion us the way He wants, and He doesn’t owe us an explanation. We are limited in our understanding, and we do not know everything. God knows the best and He has the last word.

Let us guard our hearts with all diligence and the moment we feel offended, let us rule over it.